New dating book
With Facebook, Twitter and some minor sleuthing, anyone can be tracked down.
Apps such as Tinder have spoiled us for choice and made it OK to be dating multiple people at once.
Foltz, 29, says it can be tricky, but that gender norms are still at play.
“I have a more masculine energy, so I usually pay on the first date,” she says.
Just don’t overdo it, and remember that humor and tone don’t always come through in a text.
“[Texting] is a great way to flirt, maybe give them a taste of who you are,” says dating coach Chrisler.