Dating what do man want
But before you jump into action, assess what his level of investment is.
You can typically judge a man’s interest by his actions. Often, a man is making it crystal clear that he doesn’t want a relationship.
Lastly, letting a man pursue doesn’t mean waiting around so long that you become impatient and borderline desperate.
Or even worse, settle for treatment that is less than what you deserve.
If you think he likes you, and you know that you like him, how do you get into a relationship?
I want to make it clear about what pursue does and doesn’t mean.
Unfortunately, most relationships don’t progress this way.
Chill with the idea that dating is so complicated, and scary that we need to make it easy on men. The idea of letting a man pursue you might sound old-fashioned but consider this: if you’re taking the reins from the man then you’re missing out on a key part of his personality. The way he communicates with you, and romances you, and tries to impress you. If you aggressively pursue him then you run the risk of never seeing all sides of him. You are worth the effort it takes, and is required to date someone.
We often interchange the two, but getting into a relationship and being a good dater are not mutually exclusive.
In fact, if you are a good dater, you’re less likely to want a relationship.
With a little patience, and a lot of trust, you can easily find yourself in a healthy relationship.
But fueled by insecurity, and the belief that it won’t happen unless you make it happen, can lead to a really unhappy experience.