Dating for the ugly
Here’s another truth: your looks are incredibly malleable. But even if it doesn’t, it’s incredibly easy to change the way that you look with even can tell you to never underestimate the transformative power of a hair cut. The fact that I now had a script to work from didn’t magically give me the gift of gab.
While you can’t do anything about your bone structure or your overall frame, it is almost at how much minor changes can affect how you look. Letting the hair on top keep some length and allowing for some volume on the sides goes a long way towards adjusting the shape of your head and balancing things out. In order to get better at flirting I had to go out and flirting.
I knew this with the certainty of someone who has hopped in the TARDIS and went forward in time to verify it personally. I may have sworn up and down that I could see every step of the next five years with perfect clarity, but I was wrong. (But, listen chief, as long as you’re telling the future, could you look up the lottery tickets? But whether you’re hanging out with the Incels or just asshole-infested sections of Reddit, the best thing you can do right now is log the hell out of them.
"Because they got a hot girl, they think they can be horrible? I get that you are feeling things strongly – I refer you back to the whole “18 years old” thing – but the truth is: if I had a nickel for every dude who told me that he made Quasimodo look like a Men’s Health model but turned out to be completely average looking, Elon Musk and I would be having mecha fights outside of Los Angeles right now. You’re engaging in what You Tuber Contra Points famously calls Masochistic Epistemology: if it hurts, it must be true. All that you’re doing is emotional self-harm, the psychological version of cutting.The only difference is that you’re cutting your soul and your self-esteem, not your flesh. If you want to find love and lose your virginity before all-is-lost-woe-and-alack, then the first step is to stop treating self-harm as a path to truth instead of intellectual mutilation. My face is an egg, I have a weird look in my eyes, and despite weighing 70kg and being 1.85m tall my face is still chubby and when I smile I look like a disabled person.My friends keep telling me I have a great personality but let’s face it, personality is irrelevant if you don’t look good. And even if through a miracle a girl I find hot likes me, I’ll probably hardly fail to flirt with her since I HAVE 0 EXPERIENCE and I’ll just look like and idiot. I’ll find myself at 25 still a virgin unable to find “love”.