Dating divorcees kids
We have witnessed firsthand the positive things that can come from having a bonus parent.
This past summer, we put pen to paper and wrote/designed a children’s book that has become a labor of love for us.
This became a real discussion for us in our early days, and ultimately, what made me fall in love with Justin, even more, is that he was all-in for being the best bonus dad ever and embracing that role fully without ever wondering ‘what if.’ He has filled the role as a great bonus dad, and he has felt an imperative to serve as a role-model for the kids. Instead, I met Monique and fell in love with her, and her two kids.
Having kids of ‘my own’ became less important to me as I quickly realized how much I could and I believe my family and many of my friends thought I was crazy at first and wondered if I would have regrets.
Reading it one way, the book highlights the bonus dad.
(I also tease him that he wisely escaped the diaper and potty-training years; I’m not sure how well he would have done with all of that!I could sometimes feel their nonverbal, unsupportive or hesitant response when I shared I was dating a woman with two kids.But they weren’t walking in my shoes, nor did they have any understanding of the chemistry in our pending new family situation.I’m taking a different path in writing this week, and I’m really excited about it.Many of you who follow my articles know that I’m divorced and remarried.