Dating a young widower advice
The last thing you want to do is “help” him get over his deceased wife.
This is misguided because what you are really doing is ignoring the obvious fact that he’s not ready for the real thing with you.
He’s still deep in grieving and not ready for a relationship with you.
If the man you’re dating had a good marriage, he’ll probably want to marry again.
Should you be offended, then he’s probably not the right man for you.
If he was happily married for many years, he’s going to talk about her to some degree. Only a Few Photos – It’s understandable that after many years of marriage with a woman he loved, his deceased wife will be in photos. However, if he’s got her picture by his bedside and all over the house, this is NOT a good sign.
He’s simply not ready to date you or any woman seriously.
If he brings her up once in a while and doesn’t wax on for too long, that is something to be expected and hopefully isn’t hard to tolerate.