Dating a woman with children feelings
I know you don’t want to believe it, but this guy that you’re interested in, he had a life before you.
Including past relationships and sometimes that includes children.
The minute you have children involved, your plans never completely turn out as planned. If you wanted to go to the movies on Friday night, but the kids unexpectedly come over, well, scrap that movie date.
What I’m trying to say is, you’ll need to compromise and accept whatever happens, just go with the flow. [Read: How to be the best girlfriend: 25 ways to leave him addicted] #8 You won’t be sharing “firsts.” He’s a parent which means he’s gone through a lot of “firsts”. So for you, much of this will be completely new but for him, he’s been-there-done-that.
If completing “firsts” together is of great importance for you, reconsider what you want. Since these kids aren’t yours, you’ll have to understand you have limits and boundaries that you can’t cross.
If you’re angry at the kid and swear at him, well, that’s not appropriate.
All I’m saying is he’s already had this milestone in his life.You’ll need to be cordial and come to accept their relationship.Also, you need to show his ex that you’re responsible, respectful, and invested in taking on a parenting role.If you have possession issues and are highly jealous, this isn’t going to work out for you. For example, if a boat is sinking, they usually get the women and children off of the boat first.But if there’s one life jacket left, and it’s between you and little Tommy, well, you better know how to swim. You don’t have kids, so I understand that this isn’t easy to grasp, but, that child is literally a part of him.